By John M.
Many of us in Halifax were deeply affected by the sudden, but peaceful, passing of Allen Wayte. Some of you may have already noticed (or puzzled at) my haiku response.
Tuesday saw his memorial service,[1] and I was particularly moved by the brief message from his estate agent, of all people. I spoke with David Morton after the service and he agreed to let me transcribe his words for you, and perhaps also for some of Allen’s many friends who were unable to be here yesterday.
[starts at about 32:00 on the MP3, after David's reading of Colossians 3:12-17]
David Morton: I just want to say real quickly that it was an honour to get to know Allen in the last few years of his life and I think it’s quite amazing, now that the year is over, seeing what has transpired that …
I thought God brought Allen into my life for a reason. I knew it wasn’t for a commission because when I got the call he started looking at … trailers and … [laughter]
But his bottom line was — he always wanted to have a home of his own, and he wanted to have something in the bank when he would retire. And I sensed right from the start there was more to it than that. I said, "Allen, if you, in your position directed the choirs and led worship unto God, I believe God may want to reward you for you faithfulness, because you’ve been doing this so long.
And he looked at me kind of strange, which I thought was kind of odd at the time, that God would be interested in him in that way. And I said to him, "Al, let’s just try it and see what happens."
So he was open for anything, and as I got to know Allen he had such a kind, gentle spirit and what really intrigued me is what his friends said about him. Susanne Bailey and Naomi Mensink, they just loved him. And they talked so highly of him … and that moves me when I hear people honour other people. That doesn’t come easily in the world that we live in.
And I felt — I’ll make it very quick — I felt: God who knows that our days are numbered knew this day would come, and He wanted somebody to remind Allen how much He loved Allen.
And with Allen’s childhood, growing up the way he grew up, he didn’t have a family like many of us cherish, and I hope we do cherish this Christmas season, but he had you. He had you choir members. You did such a lovely job this morning — he would have been proud, you honoured him very well with that.
And I just wanted to say that Allen loved each and every one of you in a special way — in his own unique way.
And he will be missed.
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